“Sometimes I think we tell people we’re fine even when we’re not, because we want to be fine.  Or we hope that by saying we are fine, eventually we will be. Other times we act like w’re fine because others expect us to be.  Of course, there are days when hormones trump all good manners and reason.  Days when anyone withing ten feet knows you are not fine.  Although we tell people we’re fine, what we really mean is that we are Frazzled, Irritated, Neurotic, and Exhausted!!”