Alma

  • The Prayer Warrior’s Passing

    Ten years ago today, my mother went home to Jesus, ensconced in her family’s songs of praise. Four years ago this week, I bravely opened the boxes I’d been avoiding for six years. Inside one opaque plastic tub, tucked next… Continue reading

    The Prayer Warrior’s Passing
  • It’s Your Birthday Lisa. God Blessed You This Way

    For me, birthdays come with a side of flare-ups and a sprinkle of grief. This year, I realized I wasn’t just emotional—I was reliving a decade-old goodbye, one airport layover at a time. Continue reading

    It’s Your Birthday Lisa. God Blessed You This Way
  • It’s Your Birthday Alma

    Thirty-some years ago, my mother gifted me an author’s autobiography with the inscription: “To my author-daughter.” For the last three years, I’ve been plugging away at a book that pairs my medical anecdotes with her prayerful antidotes. And this year—on… Continue reading

    It’s Your Birthday Alma
  • A Traumaversary Treasure

    I expected a confetti cannon…or singing telegram, do they still exist? maybe a drone with a ribbon stating: “YOU HAVE MAST CELL ACTIVATION SYNDROME!” It would need to be in all caps because drones are small, and the ribbon would… Continue reading

  • Perfect Fit–Don’t Forget

    There’s a void within the heart of a single woman that comes from having never received jewelry from someone who deeply cares…loves.  In the mid 90s I tried to fill that place after I finished my Masters in Special Education… Continue reading

    Perfect Fit–Don’t Forget
  • Traditions

    Last year I had only a six hour summer break just hours before tumbling into my first day of school.  I thought taking three graduate classes was a ‘healthy distraction’ after my mother’s death–and it was a distraction.  I completely… Continue reading

    Traditions
  • When Life is Less Than

    I’ve always played with my food, often creating edible zen gardens with dinner supper the evening meal. It annoyed my father who was a hard-working blue color worker; it frustrated my mother who was a peace-keeping stay-at-home-mom; it amused my… Continue reading

    When Life is Less Than
  • it IS well…

    A year ago I crumpled to the ground before the the first line was sung–could barely mouth the words before the undulating sobbing ensued.  Unashamed and unknowing of the crowd around me, I wailed before God–with worshipping so loud no… Continue reading

    it IS well…
  • Undone in Burlington

    I don’t know if it was the beautiful trees or engaging conversation, but my decades younger cousin, Megan, overshot the entrance to the Burlington, Vermont airport.  It was a quick turnaround–maybe two minutes–and we were the only car at the… Continue reading